Why does size matter

Others may let worries of a small D drain their confidence, causing them to overcompensate in other ways. All of these things can take a mental toll on the penis-haver and suck the fun out of a sex sesh for all involved. Making sure your partner is super-aroused will make it easier for them to handle your beast of a boner, so some extra focus on foreplay is a must. And lube. Lots of lube. Use your mouth, tongue, or fingers to tease their erogenous zones , focusing on all the usual suspects, like the nips and genitals, as well as some less explored but surprisingly erotic bits, like the inner arms of behind the knees.

Having them on top is always a good way to go. First, they can take you in at a pace that feels good. If your penis falls to the smaller side of the spectrum, focus on positions that let you go deep, like doggy style. Take it deeper by having your partner lower their head and chest while arching their back. If you have a thinner penis , choose positions that make for a tighter squeeze.

This can be any sex position, really, so long as your partner keeps their legs tight together. Add oral sex to the menu as the appetizer or even the main course.

The normal 5 to 7 inches is What's important though: good girth and being actually hard After a similar experience, Britni, 30, agrees.

Plus, guys with big dicks tend to rest on that and not actually put much effort in to pleasing their partner because it's like, 'I have a big dick, what else do you want? For Ruby, 28, size does matter. However, too big is an issue too. Then it just hurts. I'd say it's more about the size of a man's tongue, if you know what I'm sayin'. Oral sex is KEY. Avigail, 27, says size matters, but not in the way you might think.

Too small-still hungry, too big-tummy ache," she tells Bustle. But I was enormously attracted to him and the electricity we generated could have lit up Times Square. In that unguarded moment, I think I liked him even more for giving me a peek at his anxieties. Yes, size matters. But not the way men might think it does. In fact, women who overreach often end up returning dildos unopened, of course.

Logically, the same holds true for penises of the non-silicone variety. Many women may initially enjoy the sight of a big guy. But their next reaction is often, Ouch! My friend Shari, 38, agrees. She confesses she was so saddle-sore after a romp with a bigger-than-usual guy that the next day she made an emergency appointment with her gynecologist. For private consultations, contact him at: Larry astrodecision. Read Larry Schwimmer's latest books, here. To Sign-Up for Larry's Blog, click here.

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