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I'm a woman in her forties in a relationship with a man and I have my first STI with symptoms. Genital warts—yay! I noticed them about two months ago near my b-hole and went to the gyno today and had them treated. My question is, do I need to tell my boyfriend? We've been dating for about five months, and we don't use protection because I have an IUD. More background info: My BF hasn't gone down on me.

He wants to, but I'm very subby and it's hard for me to get off that way, so I've been putting him off. And now that I want him to try, I have warts. I don't know if he's seen them. We haven't had sex from behind in months and I think that may be why.

Maybe he saw them before I did and stopped wanting to have sex in that position? He did want to fuck me from behind a couple of days ago, but I said no because I was embarrassed.

We've been having unprotected sex about five times a week for the last five months. Meaning, you'll be telling your boyfriend one thing he needs to know about you when you make this disclosure—that you have a very common and easily transmissible STI—but his reaction will tell everything you need to know about him.

If he isn't calm and supportive out of the gate, WARTS, or can't pivot to calm and supportive quickly, you'll know he's not anyone you want in your bed or up your butt. Park, "if the boyfriend does freak out, I would make this next point: Given that the warts showed up for the first time so soon after starting this new relationship, it's likely that WARTS' current partner gave her the HPV that's causing these warts.

But even at a fetish party, LACKING, you'll see guys in neoprene, wrestling singlets, diving suits, hand-crocheted harnesses, and on and on.

Leather isn't required. I'd rather listen to a charming guy tell me a funny story about his cat than a conceited guy drone on and on about some famous actor he saw on a backlot pocketing granola bars from the craft services table. I'm not saying you're conceited or boring, LACKING, but if I were a betting man and only had the last paragraph of your letter to go on, I'd put my chips on conceited and boring.

Look, if a guy tells you halfway through a date there's nothing he wants to share with you about himself and invites you to carry on talking about yourself, that doesn't mean he's so enthralled by your stories he just wants to listen.

You say you want a relationship, but you don't see the point of dating because you're always moving. You say you want a relationship, but the apps are a waste of time because some people are sketchy. You say you want a relationship, but you don't wanna go to places where people might be buying what you're selling bear nights, bear parties because you don't wanna wear the kind of clothes you're required to wear at those events leather, which you're not actually required to wear or grow the kind of facial hair you're required grow to attend them beards, which you're not actually required to grow.

You say you want a relationship, but guys who didn't grow up with wealthy and connected parents bore you—which is going to make finding someone next to impossible. Gay men are a tiny percentage of the population and finding someone in your preferred age range is going to be hard enough without ruling out guys who can't match your story about peeing next to Matt LeBlanc in a men's room on the Warner Bros.

Or on. Viewed together, LACKING, the above looks less like "this dude is just unlucky in love" and more like "this dude is engaged in some serious self-sabotage. The problem is you. I'm not saying you're an asshole or that you're unworthy of love. You're not an asshole; you're just a little up your own ass. But you're going to need to get out of your own ass and out of your own way. If you have the kind of career that requires you to move every couple of years, LACKING, you should think twice before rejecting guys who aren't as career-oriented or privileged as you are.

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